Sexuality

There's so many ways that this post could be misinterpreted that I almost wish I could put a disclaimer after each section. C'est la vie! In short, I'm suggesting that the church's synonymous association of gay with "bad" is more harmful than anything else. Queer sexuality, in particular, needs understanding and not denial. I'm definitely not trying to suggest some sort of post-modern, pop philosophy of embracing yourself, regardless of sin. Instead, I'm trying to say that the church's insistence on associating queer sexuality with sin is blinding us to God's purpose in it. That was certainly my own experience, which I share in the story below and hope to unpack in the coming weeks. Gay and Lesbian Sexualities Are Good, Christian “That’s gay.” My brother sounded sarcastic. I was barely old enough to be in pre-school and had never heard the word “gay” in my life. “What’s ‘gay’?” I asked, but a grown-up in the room quickly hushed us, mumbling something about it being “bad.” My curiosity was piqued, but I didn’t press any further. “Gay” meant “bad.” I catalogued the definition in my brain, and for years, that’s all the word ever meant.

[caption id="attachment_2203" align="aligncenter" width="1279"]Gay, celibate Christian blogging about celibacy and issues that affect LGBT+ people Last month, I announced that I would be introducing a new topic to the blog. Read below to find out more![/caption]   I executed operation “room-to-sit” a few weeks ago when a friend visited my apartment. It’s a familiar routine now that I live in South Korea, where space is limited in my one-room studio. When she arrived, a stack of notebooks decorated my couch, which I embarrassingly cleared to make room for her. One was a prayer journal, another a thought journal, another a creative journal, another... Well, I tried explaining the notebooks… but I think I just succeeded in looking strange.

Over the past few years, significant space on my blog has been dedicated to a discussion of issues related to educational equity and social justice in low-income communities. Given that much of my career has been committed to addressing these issues, I expect to continue writing about both subjects in the foreseeable future! However, this past year, I’ve been praying about a change in direction to focus on something new.